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Oh thank you so much for leaving this com...Glenna!<br /><br />Oh thank you so much for leaving this comment....I often wonder about your journey and this will give me the opportunity to THANK YOU as YOU are one the reasons I'm writing this blog. Your beautiful email a few months ago inspired me to write, and I hope it helps others so you have played a huge part in this blog! :)x<br /><br />Your words about men and grief are so wise, and I'm so sorry for your loss, how tragic. Also for the loss of your little one. You are right about men and their grief and it took me a long time to realize Peter grieves differently to me, but no less, he just deals with it differently to the way I do....I can accept that now. :)<br /><br />Thank you again, you've made my day today, knowing that you've stopped by and I've had a chance to thank you!<br /><br />With love and appreciation for your comments.<br />Diana xxxxxxxxDiana Doylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17959587005117395783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065916202005341532.post-83111143529890616182010-08-04T09:57:20.956-07:002010-08-04T09:57:20.956-07:00Dear Diana,
About men and how they respond. I hav...Dear Diana,<br /><br />About men and how they respond. I have this feeling that they use their facial expressions and surprise at our emotional moments because WE experience such pain that they are afraid that if they join us we will pull them under. I think that they are afraid of their feelings. I don't think that this is a bad thing or that it means anything unrealistic about them but they have been conditioned to hold it together. Men need to have us see them as strong. They need to see themselves as strong. The closest we can come to helping them feel is to acknowledge how strong they are and keep an open ear for their vulnerable moments. <br />My husband lost his 19 year old son in a fire. He has said that, he doesn't want to think of it so much that it stops hurting. He wants it to always have great feeling and to experience that strong emotion because he is afraid that if he talks about it too much, it will become easy and he loves his son too much to ever allow it to be easy. I can appreciate this but it is different from how I experience grief. I am not afraid that I will not be able to grasp the depth. I do not try to change his mind. I respect his choice. He is a very intelligent man I know that his choice is his integrity with himself and with his son. I would not presume to say that this is true for all men but people are different and that is often the saving grace for us all. <br />Your blog is a wonderful tribute to your daughter so full of feeling and a real source of healing for all who go there. So well done.<br />Sincerely, GlennaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065916202005341532.post-17975777916453419432010-05-17T10:15:36.735-07:002010-05-17T10:15:36.735-07:00Dear Sandy,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your...Dear Sandy,<br /><br />I'm so sorry for the loss of your son....I have read your blog and look forward to your post about mother's day....it is one of the hardest days of the year to get through if you've lost a child or someone special.<br /><br />I try to look at life with a full cup...my mothers influence which I am forever grateful for although some days its difficult but I look towards the next day when this happens, hoping it will be better.<br /><br />I'm getting alot of comfort in blogging and helping others on their journey, your words have also brought comfort to me today!<br /><br />I'll look forward to checking in on your blog to see what your special signs were!<br /><br />Thanks again, sending love<br />Diana xDiana Doylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17959587005117395783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065916202005341532.post-34108208187618315242010-05-17T07:21:36.232-07:002010-05-17T07:21:36.232-07:00Diana,
I just found your blog after looking throu...Diana,<br /><br />I just found your blog after looking through some of my newer followers on Twitter. I am so sorry for the tremendous losses you have experienced and the pain you have had to endure. At the same time, I am so amazed to see how you are still able to live life to the full. In fact, your cup is full and splashing over as a blessing to others.<br /><br />The title of this post caught my eye because I have also experienced those special signs from Heaven on Mother's Day. My first Mother's Day without my son and this Mother's Day have been incredible in terms of the signs I have received. I haven't written at my blog for awhile, but I need to write about this soon.<br /><br />Thank you for offering hope to those of us who have walked down this difficult path of grief, especially the grief of losing a child.<br /><br />Sandy<br />http://journeyofgrief.wordpress.comSandyhttp://j9foundation.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065916202005341532.post-40463998455106496862010-05-13T18:30:20.420-07:002010-05-13T18:30:20.420-07:00Thanks Missy as always for your lovely inspiring m...Thanks Missy as always for your lovely inspiring msg's. Yes, you are right, children are a product of their environment and are untouched by loss or things we are affected by. I'm surprised Demps is such a happy girl considering she didn't have much of my attention for the first 2 years as Savannah was sick.<br /><br />Sending you sunshine and a kiss for your little fairy! xDiana Doylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17959587005117395783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065916202005341532.post-28615845669771097492010-05-13T11:26:48.101-07:002010-05-13T11:26:48.101-07:00What a lovely post. How sweet of Dempsey to inclu...What a lovely post. How sweet of Dempsey to include her older sister in the gift she made for you. She is surely a very special and loving girl, which can only be a reflection of the loving environment she is being raised in.<br /><br />Happy Belated Mother's Day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com